#TheSW30: Day 8 & 9.
Day 8: Five things that are most important to you in a future mate.
- Oh boy, one of the hardest questions for anyone to answer! There are so many qualities about a future mate that can either make or break the potential relationship in the blink of an eye. To be honest, I actually struggled coming up with only FIVE things out of the fifty million I seem to come up with for my dream man. But, here goes nothing ladies and germs :)
- RESPECT--one of the most important yet misused qualities. I'm talking about every kind of respect imaginable: self-respect, respect for others that you may currently know or may not currently know(me included), respect for the world you live in and respect for God.
- DRIVE-I want someone who wants to do better and is actively taking the steps to be a better man all around. One thing that bothers me is someone who either a) has no goals whatsoever and no plans of changing it or b) has a dream but does not actively pursue that dream. I struggle with this myself sometimes (it's natural to have little moments like that), but do not talk a good game to me about what you want to do and you don't even attempt to do it!
- RESPONSIBILTY-I mean this in every sense of the word. I want someone who chooses paying their water bill over those new Air Max Jordans at foot Locker or pops a bottle of overpriced, bitter liquor in order to have a good time and unwind. I'm not saying just come at me looking tore up from the floor up, but labels and Ciroc cocktails aren't going to buy my affections either. Make sure your ducks are in order before you think about trying to add mine to your collection.
- SENSE OF HUMOR-Over this summer, I've learned that I like to laugh. A lot. And often very loudly. So, I would love for someone to be able to make me laugh and to laugh with me once in awhile. Sometimes when I have a REALLY crummy day, I like to watch YouTube videos of old 90s sitcoms or The Three Stooges and just have a really good laugh! Even if your jokes are really lame, as long as i know you're legit trying to make me feel better, I'll laugh with you instead of at you :)
- AUTHENTICITY-I seriously had the hardest time coming up with a final quality. But after a little soul searching, I realized that none of the other four would matter to me if you're not authentic in your efforts. Whether you're in full pursuit of me or realize that you love someone else (God forbid that happens, cause I'd like to think that I'm awesome), just be real about what you're presenting! I would ultimately rather be hurt in the current by your truth than to be led on and crushed deeply by little white lies. One thing that I'm completely true about are my feelings, so I expect the same for my man in return.
- I don't really think this is weird or funny per se, but I like to spend some of my free time looking up choreography to different songs, dance tutorials or song covers. I've always have been fascinated by dancers and the aura they possess while performing. They appear so fluid in their movements, exploring a freedom with their bodies that I still dream of possessing. Currently , I'm on a quest of learning the concept of 'tutting' and how to 'moonwalk'. Tutting has more successful for me than moonwalking, but hopefully I'll be able to do both someday. As for the song covers, I like to research and listen to see if my voice is able to hold the notes (yes, I can legit sing. fun fact:] ) one day, I would like to learn to play an instrument -like piano or guitar--r create a YouTube channel and upload some covers or maybe an original song by yours truly someday. This REALLY makes me regret throwing out my broken black guitar, by the way. Luckily, my dad purchased a keyboard for me as a birthday gift, so I have got some serious work to do, folks!
Comments
Post a Comment