#TheSW30: Day 6--New & Improved

So as stated previously, I chose not to post on day 5 because my feelings hadn't really changed regarding that particular question (check last year's post here). Day 6, on the other hand, I'd say that my feelings have changed quite a bit, while still maintaining the same general ideal. Here's last year's response to the question--along with day 7's Q&A--here.

Now read to see what I have to say about this :  Sound off on the quote “Every woman has the exact love life she wants”.

Honestly I don't think that's 100 percent true. I mean, what woman would really desire to subject herself to abuse or emotional pain or cheating?? I don't think any woman wants that out of love. I believe that many women desire a lot of the same things out of their love life: passion, fun, feeling cared about and adored, security, and the list can go on and on. I really think the quote should be tweaked a bit--instead saying "Every woman has the love life she needs". Why, you may be asking?? Simple. There are lessons in every person's life that they were designed to learn, especially in the area of love. As a race, we as humans have craved some type of undying love to be felt--whether it be from a friend, parent , lover, pet, you name it. It's frightening and heartbreaking to feel unloved. Believe me, I know. Love can be one of the most beautiful yet trying things a person can go through. However, I also believe that it can be one of life's greatest teachers.  Maybe that 15 year friendship is growing apart or  you're in that crappy relationship or you haven't been in one at all to release your inner independent woman, to truly appreciate the importance of a meaningful conversation, to remember why you chose to stick around or close the door, or see that maybe the one you really should be loving is you and you alone. Once again, the possibilities are endless and unique to all of us. No two person's love lives are exactly the same, but to me, that's the beauty of love. There's no one way to experience or give it out. So the next time you think about complaining about the love you don't have just yet, think on the grand lessons that can learned from it.
 I promise, you won't be disappointed :)

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